Tuesday, April 30, 2013

5410

5410
5…
4……
10…….
5 huruf, 4 angka, 10 suku kata.
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Malam menjemput kasih yang telah usai.
Angin membawa kembali cerita itu
Bukankah mereka bilang kini semua sudah tiada?
Hilang bersama dedaunan yang berguguran.

Cinta datang bukan karena ingin.
Cinta datang karena ia tahu kapan saat yang tepat.
Manusia tak bisa berkata, hanya bisa merasa.
Bahwa cinta itu benar nyata ketika ada.

Cinta pergi tanpa pamit.
Menyisakan sedikit luka yang tak terbesit.
Salahku membiarkannya pergi tak kembali
Sesalku mundur saat cinta ini masih utuh.

Monday, April 29, 2013

I Feel That

Kini, gue mengerti rasanya jadi Rossi, 3 tahun lalu, di sirkuit Motegi, yang harus mengalah demi Lorenzo karena dipaksa oleh sistem yang dibuat Yamaha Racing Team.
Sakit sIh, sakit. Tapi itu melatih lo untuk menjadi lebih dewasa lagi.

Monday, April 1, 2013

Doing Good is Doing Business

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Hello folks!
Tonight, I want to post about the resume one of books that I’ve ever read. The title is . When I first saw this book, I was interested with the title. So I decided to bought this book.
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Overall, this book tells us about how to be a good leader who n only motivated by the material things such as getting the company’s name out there, received thanks and recognition, and the chance to get something in return or to gain an advantage. Nowadays, people often see business are a choice between being kind and being successful. This is a flictious trade-off. To be successful in the ever-changing and ever-competitive global marketplace, you may need many things: determination, well-articulated goals, and a bit of luck. In this book, Kristin brings us another factor that needed by the professionals to achieve their goals, KINDNESS!
Kristin asks us to make a kindness become a businnes asset. Because, kindness not only helps others, it also helps us to be a successful as we want to be. This book shows us how to develop ‘kindness capital’. Kindness, coupled with other professional skills and abilities, enables individual professionals to make their career goals and aspirations happen. It will set us on the course to having the things we want and being the person we want to be.
Kristin tells us about 5 powerful tools for developing kindnes capital make such results possible:
1. The power of REPUTATION: building a strong caring reputation
2. The power of RECIPROCITY: giving and garnering reciprocal kindnesses and favors from others
3. The power of PERSONALITY: learning to be someone that others like
4. The power of THANKS: being appreciative of others
5. The power of CONNECTING: connecting with others and building a strong network.
When you use the 5 powers, you raise the level of kindness capital all around you, she said.
Do good and do well are the keys to do a good bussiness. Lack of kindness costs businesses, well, business. You should simultaneously care about and respect others while at the same time enjoying and appreciating the ways in which they can benefit you.
Not only about the theory of being kind-business-one, but Kristin also shows us many quotes from the famous and success-business-man who have already applied the kindness as a capital.
From this book, I learned so many things that there are not only profit or others material things around business but we need kindness to succeeding in business.
It’s enough from me. I hope you’ll also get the advantages from Kristin’s book through my resume.
Night folks! :)

Sehari Sejuta Makna


Haaah….. UTS udah di depan mata tapi gue masih ngerasa otak gue blank dan belom keisi apa2.
Seharian ini gue merasa lelah banget. Bukan lemah fisik, tapi lebih tepatnya lemah batin. Banyak hal yang bisa gue tangkep dari hari ini walaupun gue cuma di rumah doang.
Pertama. Gue lelah karena setiap ada tugas kelompok selalu gue yang paling aktif. Bukan apa-apa, gue itu orangnya khawatiran, gue takut tugas kelompok ga selesai dengan maksimal dan ga dapet nilai. Perfectionist? Nggak juga. Ambi? Bukan gue banget L Mungkin dulu sih iya gue ambi, ikut lomba sana sini. Tapi sekarang? Ga bisa. Gue udah gabisa ambi lagi. Gue lelah karena tiap ada tugas pasti gue jadi inisiatornya yang endingnya gue juga yang jadi ‘pekerja’nya. Kalau kata ayah, kita harus ikhlas. Kalau nilai full buat gue sih nggak apa-apa gue ikhlas, tapi kalau tetep aja dibagi2 nilainya? Fine. Gue lelah. Pelajaran berharga banget adalah gue harus belajar ikhlas. Hem mungkin di aspek lainnya gue ga harus ikhlas makanya cobaan keikhlasan gue terakumulasi di aspek ini.
Ketika mereka meminta tolong (entah ini minta tolong apa nyuruh) gue ngerjain, gue ngerasa ingin teriak ke mereka ‘guys, please. I’m so tired of these fucking things! Have you ever think about my feeling?’ Lelah, lelah banget. Kalau gue tolak yaaa ini tugas gue juga, entar yang kena imbasnya kan gue juga. Yaudahlah, kembali gue mencoba ikhlas. Tapi hari ini, gue cukup puas dengan diri gue sendiri yang berhasil melawan rasa ga enak yang selalu membayangi hidup gue. Gue berhasil menolak suatu kerjaan dan gue serahkan ke mereka. Tadinya, gue bahkan gamau ngerjain part gue. Tapi gue kembali mengalah pada rasa ga enak gue. Jujur, gue ga tenang. Gue gatau apa kabarnya tugas itu, apa udah selesai apa belom. Tapi, gue pengen sekali-kali merasakan jadi mereka. Melepas dan seakan-akan ga taua kalo gue punya tugas. Tapiiiiii, kembali lagi. Ini tugas gue (yang sebenernya tugas kelompok). Gue ga bisa kayak gini. Satu kunci yang bener-bener solusinya, ikhlas. Gue harus ikhlas. Gue mungkin boleh lelah sama hal-hal itu. Tapi gue ga boleh lelah untuk ikhlas.
Kedua. Ada sebuah cerita di hari ini yang amat teramat bikin gue bingung dan jadi serba salah. Oke, emang gue yang salah. Tapi ini bikin gue resah banget.  Mungkin ga semua tau kalo gue itu orangnya suka banget upload foto-foto ke facebook. Salah satunya tadi siang gue upload foto-foto pas lagi timbil BEM. Gue, selama ini, kalau upload foto seringnya via bb dan gue sendiri juga jarang banget tag foto ke orangnya gitu. Males. Pas tadi gue selesai upload yaa gue biasa aja, gue tenang-tenang aja. Gue ga tag-in orang-orang di foto tersebut. Nggak berapa lama kemudian, notif di fb banyak banget gitu. Gue buka via bb taunya ada *pake inisial aja ya* F, M dan R dan beberapa orang lainnya yang gue ga kenal comment di salah satu foto yang gue upload. Hemm gue gatau awalnya, gue sempet comment juga lah disana bilang kalo tujuan gue upload yaa emang pengen upload aja, bukan karena pengen bikin suatu hal yang kontroversial. Karena jujur, gue pun ga memikirkan hal-hal lain selain mau upload foto-foto itu aja. Terus kan gue tinggal tidur tuh. Pas gue bangun, gue liat bb gue, notif fb banyak banget. Gue Cuma buka tapi ga gue liat, karena gue males. Setelah itu, kan gue sempet wasapan sama seseorang yang ada di foto kontroversial yang gue upload itu. Biasa sih, bercanda standard gitu karena kita masih sama-sama gatau. Sampai akhirnya orang tersebut bilang kalau foto yang gue upload itu udah bikin heboh temen2nya. Gue kan bingung yaa kok bisa pada tau foto itu, pas gue cek ternyata ada tag-an ke orang tersebut di foto itu. Dan yang bikin gue tambah kaget adalah yang nge-tag adalah gue. Gue ga ngerti lagi deh. Soalnya gue ga ngetag foto ke siapa2, gue sendiri pun enggak. Pas gue tanya temen gue lainnya, ternyata ada fasilitas tag otomatis gitu dari fb. Gue emang ngeklik dua kali gitu pas upload, gue gatau kalo ternyata klik yang kedua kalinya itu adalah untuk tag otomatis. Iya sih gue sempet bingung gitu pas upload pake web tadi. Ini salah gue karena gue ga teliti karena gue ga liat-liat dulu sebelum bertindak. Salah gue ga mikir lagi. Salah gue. Dan sekarang pun gue digandrungi rasa yang amat teramat ga enak dan ngerasa bersalah banget sama temen gue itu. Di a bilang sih gapapa, selow, lupain. Tapi tetep gue ga enak karena gue tau gue udah salah ke dia. Karena katanya, foto-foto itu pun nyampe ke guru-gurunya. Gue ga enak, sumpah ga enak. Maafin gue yaa L
Banyak hal sebenenrya yang gue dapetin dari hari ini. 24 jam yang belum selesai gue habiskan di hari ini, tapi udah memberikan banyak makna ke gue. Lebih baik ke depannya dan nggak mengulangi kesalahan yang sudah diperbuat adalah kuncinya. Bismillah 

Friday, March 1, 2013

My First Writing Class!!!

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Hello blogs! Welcome to my first wordpress hehehe. Actually this wordpress is made specially to APSIA’s task hehe because it is too impossible if I use my old blog.
Kay, now I want to tell you about my first class in APSIA last week. It was my first training class in APSIA. It was so memorable and I had have fun there.
My first class is writing class. I was very exciting. In our first writing class, we have 2 sessions of how to be a good writer and about creative learning. In the first session, we got Kak Diego, the student of FIB UI that now is in progress to make a final project (good luck kak!) and also the writer of the novel ‘blablabla’. And we also had bang Boim, one of the characters in LUPUS and also he is the writer of sooooo many novels that maybe we all know them. And in the second session, we had kak Arry and kak Windy as our speakers. Kak Arry is the student of FT UI and he is the article writer that successfully got so many awards. And the last, we had kak Windy, the editor and also the writer of so many novels. She is also often be the speaker of how to be a creativewriter.
In the first session,  I learned about how to be success writer through following your passion. He told us not to be a looser so he gave us some tips and tricks how to be a good and inspiring writer:
  1. You may not be able to cry If that can’t be a royalty for you
  2. There is no exception for the things that we like. So, if you like something, there is no reason to do it
  3. There is no a high-dream, there is a lack of effort
  4. Do not ever give yourself a limitation
  5. If you want to do something, you must find out you uniqueness
  6. If you want to start write something, you must know correctly who is your target that will read your text
  7. Do something you like consistently and continuesly
  8. Be more creative
  9. Art is so cliché so you have to know how the best way to present that.
He was also gave us 6 things that must be remember if we want to be a creativewriter:
1. diction and style
2. viewpoint
3. dialogue and narration
4. characterization
5. showing or telling
6.do  research
in the first session, beside Kak Diego, we also had Bang Boim, the writer of LUPUS. He thought us about how to be an inspiring writer. There are some tips and tricks that he gave us:
  1. We have to work on what we knoe. We have to explore them and find out what we have’nt know yet
  2. We have to know what is our strength and what is our weakness. So we can explore ourselves to be better one
  3. If you want to start write something, you have to learn and know what is the phenomena that happened around us\
  4. We have to cleaverly combine the characters that we have.

In the second session, we had kak Ali Rahmawan and Mbak Windy.
Ali Rahmawan is the student of faculty of engineering at university of Indonesia. He is the socialpreneur. He told us to always follow our passion and do what we like. So, we can get the double successful. In the last year, he successfully released 500 articles, 5 books and got 25 awards. He also have his own website,www.arryrahmawan.net and his own publisher.
He gave us 3 tips to be good writer: focus on what we do, act, and respect to time. He was also said that if we wanto to be a writer, do not ever think about other things except you only want to share what you know to other through your text. The last sentence that he said is, to be a good writer, we have to read a lot and write a lot.
And this is the last session. Mbak Windy, the writer and editor at Gagas Mesdia publisher as the speaker. In this session, I learned practically how to be creativewriter. First, I learned how to be a fast writer through  tell everyone about my future. And next we learned to be creativewriter with build a story through 6 words only. For example, the legend six-words-sotry from Ernest Hemmingwey. For sale: Baby’s Shoes Never Worn. It is actually a sad story that told us about a couple that really want to have a baby but they never had. after that, she though us some tips and tricks:
  1. We heave to write what we know with unusual way
  2. Do not ever reject the change, because it will ‘kill’ yourself
  3. Read a lot to get more inspiration
  4. Write down your ideas wherever and whenever you are in a note
  5. You have to practice to write quickly
  6. If you want to write something, you have to make a plots that answered the cause and effect things. You also have to tell something once.
  7. You have to know what is happening around you to get the right theme that has booming in community
  8. And the last, she told us that creativity is made by a question not from a statement.
Those are all about that I got from my first writing class in apsia. It was so inspiring and insightful. Thankyou APSIA :)